I call it. The type of guy i want: (because i don't wanna be single for another 3 years)
I want someone that can hold a conversation while looking at me and not my boobs. Someone who has ideas and wants to share them with me. Someone who asks "What do you think?" I like to give my opinions and i like when someone acknowledges the fact that i have an opinion. It's ok if we don't agree all the time because i'm willing to accept that not everyone feels the way i do. Someone who can see past all the things that are wrong with me and still love me. Trust me, i'm not that hard to get to know. I'm just shy at first. You have to be able to get along with my friends because they have been through a lot with me and you could learn from them. I love the littles things in life, i know everyone says that but i mean it. If i see a sunset, sun rise or a rainbow that looks awesome i will sit there and stare at it for a good 15 minutes. maybe even longer. You have to be able to do that too. He has to be willing to put up with sitting outside in the cold, watching the stars. Of course i'll keep you warm : ). I will probably take about a billion pictures with my guy, not too show off to people but too have and look back on. I know everyone says i won't change for a guy but i would. If they were worth it i would change and they would change with me. That's what relationships are about. Change. As you can tell i like to write or type a lot and as long as my guy doesn't have any problems with it they would be my inspiration. I always laugh when i see on myspace surveys "Would you rather have a one night stand or true love?" How can that even be a question? A night of meaningless sex or having someone to grow old with...someone to share your dreams with. Is there really any contest on what someone should want. Even if the sex was really good lol i would still choose to have someone to grow old with. Gotta love music, if i meet someone and i go to there house and i don't see a single cd or ipod laying somewhere...theres a problem. Oh and maybe someone who would on occasion bring me flowers and i'm not talking 12 dozen long stem roses i mean and dandelion from outside is ok with me. Remember little stuff counts. One thing i learned is waking up to "good morning texts" puts me in a really good mood. Waking up in someone's arms would be better but i would settle for a good morning text : ) Wow i sure can rant about stuff and i'm not done yet lol Gotta let me wear his clothes because guy hoodies are sooo comfortable. He has to get that when I'm mad that i'm not mad at him. Something might have ticked me off but just because i'm acting bitchy towards him doesn't mean it's him i'm mad at. I know that sounds complicated but i tend to take my anger out on the wrong people. Which causes more problems, i know. i'm working on not doing that. Has to love scrubs : D cause i do!!! Has to except me the way i am, because there is no way in hell i would ever change my body for a guy. yeah i like my body and i'm starting to like the way my ass looks in jeans : D Has to be around the same height as me, i'm not into shorties. I have a weird imagination, no joke i will see something and like picture it in my head happening a different way and just laugh out of nowhere lol. I do have guy friends and no i'm not interested in any of them. Some of them get out of hand i'm not going to name names *cough* Dylan *cough* Marcus. But they know there boundaries with me by now and if they don't my guy can kick there ass for me : D haha just kidding. Oh and if i meet a guy and he drops the "L" bomb after "knowing" me for a month, yeah your not hearing it from me. I put knowing in quotes because no one can know someone after only being with them for a month. It's just not possible to know someone that well, it takes time and lots of it. Which means lots of talking which i guess you can tell i like to do a lot. You notice through out this whole thing i did not mention once, has to be hot with nice muscles and a nice ass or have money and a nice car cause those things aren't important. Cuteness and Hotness is just a mask for some people. They seem like nice guys when really they aren't. I have to admit i'm a total sucker for a nice smile, because when someone smiles it just makes me feel all warm and fuzzy. I would date a guy with a little meat on his bones because he could be the nicest guy i ever met. Wow i think i'm done...to recap what i just wrote
1.) Someone who likes to talk and doesn't mind sharing his opinions
2.) Someone who wouldn't mind watch the stars with me
3.) Someone who isn't looking for just a one night stand
4.) Brings me flowers and sends me good morning texts
5.) Likes to take lots and lots of pictures
6.) Can handle my mood swing and the fact that i have guy friends (none i'm interested in)
7.) Don't say i love you after knowing me for a month
8.) Nice smile : D
man i can type a lot when i'm in the zone lol
anyone know anyone fitting this description... or is that too much to ask for?
